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Build Em Up – Calling All Women’s Groups

August 6, 2013 //  by Courtney

Heart is heavy for a young girl close to many I know and love. #prayforjulia – Praying Gwinnett Church

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I’m glad you are here IF:

1. You are IN a women’s group (moms or ladies group)

2. You are looking for a ladies group

3. You are unsure about the whole thing

 

I pray you will find your spot – either sharing your experience in hopes to build community. Or, being brave enough to say “I need to find a group.”

 

 

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How do these LINKY things work?

Build ‘Em Up is designed to bring women together to simply build one another up. I will share on the topic below and so will Erin, Kelly and Jennifer on their blogs.

If you have a blog, simply write about this topic today – and link up by posting that blog post link/url below. Please include your CITY, ST in the title if possible – so those hunting can find a group more easily.

  • You can write about your experience in a ladies and moms group – and how it has impacted you personally. So, others might be moved to look for one in their hometown.
  • You can share about your group for the Fall and what openings you might have.
  • You can share what you are looking for in a group – and share your CITY, STATE in the title so we can hopefully find you a good fit.
  • If you don’t blog – leave us your thoughts in the comments. We want to hear from you too!

 

My Heart On Groups

I have a fear of commitments right now. I can’t say yes to another anything weekly and I have felt like this for years.  I already cannot STAND that people say “oh you are so busy” or “I know you are so busy.” I already have a reputation of being triple-booked, always on my phone and way too much on my plate. I am not proud of this fact. I am grateful for many fun opportunities, but I don’t want that on my tomb —- she was really busy. Without margin or white space, there isn’t room for relationships and phone calls and God to move.

 

If a friend had an issue or a need and did NOT call me because they assumed I was too busy – shoot me now! Seriously, I’d rather be there for a friend in real life – pick up a sick child, cry with a weary mom or do carpool for a friend more than “to do” or “conference call” on my list.

 

God is pressing on me lately about the idea of a ladies group. Honestly, I haven’t done very many. I have always been in “small groups” or “connect groups” with my husband. And that will never change. I also have a core group of moms that I depend on for most mom issues. And, I have participated in two mentor groups which have influenced me in huge ways. I have also done my own studies and books for many years. However, I am feeling it’s time for me to make this commitment and actually step up and lead it.
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I believe the commitment of time with like-minded women is not only worth it, it is critical.

 

As wonderful as our online relationships are – I need face-to-face friends for accountability, love and friendship. It’s easy to get isolated behind a computer. If I want my church and my city to be filled with a community of families madly in love with Jesus…. what can I do to help that? If I want to lead others in a mighty way – how much time am I really spending studying God’s work and growing personally? If I want to be a woman that shares my faith authentically  – am I leaving my house enough? And getting in circles to let Him work?

 

I believe there are local moms in my very own church that need me and I need them more importantly.

 

So, I’m doing what I don”t have time to do – but I know God is whispering for me to do. I am leading a group this Fall – one study at a time. For some ladies in my church that I’ve been wanting to get to know anyway. If you are at Summit and looking for a weekday morning group, email me – taking as many folks as I can. It’s not even official or legal I don’t think with the church – I’m just gathering some women at my home and we are diving in.

 

Also, there is a crew of you that are feeling the nudge to start one and the enemy is doing a number on your confidence. Do it. You can do it. You are a facilitator and an organizer. You are not an expert on the Bible. You are gathering women and God does the rest. Order books – send emails. Gather them and He will show up.

 

And another thing!….remember, this has nothing to do with “actions” and doing the right thing to be a good little Christian and everything to do with your heart. God wants to know us deeply. Something beautiful happens when like-minded women get together and share real life struggles and praises. He moves. So, it’s about knowing Him not working for Him or impressing Him.

 

Tell me about a group you have loved.

Is your group getting started again this Fall? Taking new members?

What kind of group have you been in and how has it impacted you?

 

 

Category: Build Em Up, Mom's Walk with Christ

About Courtney

Courtney DeFeo is most known for being a factory of ideas for families. It’s her desire to lead a life that radiates God’s love in action and His grace along the way. As a former marketing professional for corporations such as Chick-fil-A and Ketchum Public Relations, Courtney has a history of creating memorable programs and ideas that motivate others to action. She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle, creator of ABC Scripture Cards and Virtue Cards and the kindness movement Light ‘Em Up Acts. Her latest project is a community for tween girls and their moms - found at TreasuredGirlz.com. Her house is a wreck and she hates to cook. She adores her hot, patient husband. She posts entirely too many photos of her two girls on Instagram. Connect with Courtney anytime: Twitter • Website • Facebook • Instagram

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