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Light ‘Em Up – SUMMER STYLE 2013

June 12, 2013 //  by Courtney


Who is ready to impact their community for good? Have their heart explode with love? Fill their summer free time with purpose and passion? Bring a very easy program to your family, friends, neighborhood and churches?

 

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Let’s do this!!! If you are a longtime follower of this blog – you know we have done this before. Light ‘Em Up started as a Christmas random acts of kindness program. You can read it about here. Over 70,000 folks pinned it last year on Pinterest and thousands joined us to impact communities.

 

 

During the holidays, we wanted our kids to learn it’s about GIVING not GETTING.

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Why can’t we do this all year? Do you know people in need all year long? Do you have kids looking for fun? Do your kids learn best through experience not lectures? Me too!

 

I just LOVE the opportunities SUMMER presents to love on others. (And, confession.. around week 2 of summer. I’m sort of out tricks. I need something to do with these people.)

 

If you’re already SOLD and a FAN – may I present to you Light ‘Em Up Summer Style.

 

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Download for FREE:

Family Planning Guide, 25 Ideas, Lollipop & Popsicle Tags, Drink Tags and Ice Cream Cone Wrappers.

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If you’re new, let me explain further …

 

START WITH FAMILY PLANNING GUIDE

You want this to be FUN and an adventure. As we make our common “bucket lists” for summer – just incorporate this into the list. The goal is that this becomes a “want to” not a “have to.” Think of things and groups of people they would WANT to serve. If it’s forced, the message is likely not going to stick as well. Print the Family Planning Guide and have a good ole fashion family meeting – be sure the meal is right – fries and ice cream approved. Also, bring the 25 IDEAS to get the juices flowing!

 

GET YOUR SUPPLIES

You can use plain paper or cardstock and PRINT LOLLIPOP TAGS or DRINK TAGS or ICE CREAM WRAPPERS. If you have a circle cutter – you can use that. Glue, scissors, tape and ribbon are always a must.

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JUST DIVE IN & TRY IT

We took some free drinks by this morning for all the swim teachers at the local pool.

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Then, we swung by a construction site because it is SO SO HOT in Florida and decided to “cool em off.”  I was really unprepared for how God would work so early. I was truly getting some “photo opps” for this post. That’s the thing – sometimes the moment is for YOU and sometimes its for the RECIPIENT and sometimes it’s for YOUR KIDS. It won’t always be amazing and sometimes the reception won’t be awesome.

Just walk in faith and God will move, and sometimes we get the amazing treat of watching.

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Here’s the story, I just have to share. Consider #LightEmup13 kicked off. I want to hear yours too.

We (me, Larson and her bud Annalee) took 8 cold drinks with notes up to a site with 7 working men and what appeared to be the supervisor on the job. He immediately walked over with suspicion. I explained that we just had some summer cold treats for them just because they looked hot and thanked them. He said, “What do we owe you?” I said “NOTHING!” He asked again and really didn’t believe me. I told him I was just trying to teach the girls about kindness and we walked to the car. Next thing I know he is at the car window with $5 and asked me if he could pay it forward to my family. I said, “NO WAY! Really, we really just want to love on some people today.” He then explained, “This has NEVER happened to me in 54 years. Maybe from the owner of a site but NEVER from a stranger just because. The guys don’t believe I don’t know you.” He was so moved and so was I. I told him a little bit about the program of Light Em Up and what we were trying to teach our kids through the EXPERIENCE of kindness and love and generosity. He just beamed. And shared how touched he was and how crucial it was to teach kids to do life this way. And walked away. He walked away visibly touched – not by me – but by the love of God. I didn’t even have to utter his name. He felt it. I know he did.

 

We left and treated some police officers to some lollipops. Candy canes were our weapons of choice for Christmas. Let’s make lollipops and popsicicles are weapons of LOVE & KINDNESS for Summer.

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The options are endless. There’s25 Ideas right here. That’s the fun. Summer still can be about relaxing and enjoying and being kids – but what if we weaved important lessons such as GENEROSITY and KINDNESS right in the middle of that fun?

 

As Bob Goff says so beautifully in his bestseller, LOVE DOES.

 

I want my love for Christ to show through my actions. I want my kids to have this kind of love down in their DNA. This is how we do live. This is how we do summers – not just the holiday times. This is how we do life, every year, every month. We love. We choose to notice the unnoticed. To serve those in need. To help a friend. To give to those less fortunate. TO ALWAYS THINK OF OTHERS BEFORE OURSELVES. To never expect one thing in return.

 

Because the one who created us and gave us this incredible life – did JUST THAT for us and so much more.

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So, WHO IS IN?

RESPOND BELOW WITH: WE ARE IN.

 

That means 1 lollipop or 10 ice cream parties. It doesn’t matter. No guilt. No Guilt. No Guilt. I pledge to only do this when and if I can. I am a great mom no matter what. Roger that?

 

Share photos, stories via Facebook, Twitter and Instagram:

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Download for FREE: Family Planning Guide, 25 Ideas, Lollipop & Popsicle Tags, Drink Tags and Ice Cream Cone Wrappers.
Do you LOVE the design? Me too. Thank you SARAH! Check out her blog. So grateful!

Category: Light 'Em Up (Instilling Generosity)

About Courtney

Courtney DeFeo is most known for being a factory of ideas for families. It’s her desire to lead a life that radiates God’s love in action and His grace along the way. As a former marketing professional for corporations such as Chick-fil-A and Ketchum Public Relations, Courtney has a history of creating memorable programs and ideas that motivate others to action. She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle, creator of ABC Scripture Cards and Virtue Cards and the kindness movement Light ‘Em Up Acts. Her latest project is a community for tween girls and their moms - found at TreasuredGirlz.com. Her house is a wreck and she hates to cook. She adores her hot, patient husband. She posts entirely too many photos of her two girls on Instagram. Connect with Courtney anytime: Twitter • Website • Facebook • Instagram

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