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Small Steps Equal Big Change

April 13, 2015 //  by Courtney

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After a few years, I am noticing a unique bond in our community. The readers that come to Lil Light O’ Mine – you are much like me. You aren’t comfortable with sitting. You like to make a difference. And you love to work together. And God typically shows up and blows the doors off each effort. It is SO incredible to watch little lights shine really bright – you reflect His light in a beautiful way. You simply start something and the rest is up to Him. You invite your friends. You bring your kids and it is so encouraging to watch. Thanks for sharing your stories with me. It truly humbles me each time. I wish we were neighbors, because I’d go every time.

Enjoy this beautiful tale from my sweet friend Courtney Westlake. 

 

Small Steps Equal Big Change

by Courtney Westlake

 

All it took was for my best friend’s mom to mention that a local charity (which serves the poorest of the poor in our community) had some funding cut and would no longer be able to provide needs to their clients like toilet paper. And suddenly, my group of friends jumped on board to host a huge fundraiser to collect toilet paper for them.

 

In our first year, our “TP the Town” event collected $2,400 cash and more than SIX THOUSAND rolls of toilet paper!

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As my friends and I plan our second “TP the Town,” it has opened my eyes to the way that ordinary moms really can do extraordinary things, especially together. We can be world-changers simply by working together to make small differences.

 

I think we, as moms, often feel like all we do is give, give and give some more – errands again? dinner again? baseball practice again? potty again??!!

 

But what a change in this world we could make if, at times, we focused a little less on giving to our kids and instead focused more on teaching them about giving.

 

I used to think I had to do something BIG in order to make an impact in this world. I wanted to help in a Big Way.

 

But over time, I realized that using my time and personal talents and even a small amount of resources (within budget!). I really am helping in a big way, if I am answering God’s calling on my heart. I’m showing Him to the world in a Big Way. And if, as a mom, I include my children in these callings, I can teach them firsthand and very personally about living in purpose for God.

 

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As a small group, my friends and I have put together “care packs” for low-income children at an after-school program. We have compiled goodies in Christmas stockings and party supplies for birthday parties for homeless children at a local shelter.

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We have made dinner for a women’s homeless shelter, where we bonded with those women and exchanged recipes with them. We have handed the basic need of toilet paper to people who cannot afford it. And we have done it all with our children beside us, helping and watching.

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Giving with our friends and with our children doesn’t feel like giving at all – instead of draining us, it fills our hearts with love, and it encourages us to step into the shoes of people all of our community and our world…and in their shoes, we can see how we’re all in this together, for Him.

 

How has God nudged you to be a spark in your town?

How can your group of friends make a big difference in small ways?

How have you invited your kids into serving your community?

 

Connect with Courtney at Blessed by Brenna

Category: Light 'Em Up (Instilling Generosity), Virtues/Values

About Courtney

Courtney DeFeo is most known for being a factory of ideas for families. It’s her desire to lead a life that radiates God’s love in action and His grace along the way. As a former marketing professional for corporations such as Chick-fil-A and Ketchum Public Relations, Courtney has a history of creating memorable programs and ideas that motivate others to action. She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle, creator of ABC Scripture Cards and Virtue Cards and the kindness movement Light ‘Em Up Acts. Her latest project is a community for tween girls and their moms - found at TreasuredGirlz.com. Her house is a wreck and she hates to cook. She adores her hot, patient husband. She posts entirely too many photos of her two girls on Instagram. Connect with Courtney anytime: Twitter • Website • Facebook • Instagram

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