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Week of Help – Part 1, Courtney DeFeo on Writing

December 15, 2014 //  by Courtney


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Hey friends!!!

 

I’m really excited about this week and I hope you’ll take advantage of it! I decided my BEST gift to you – was just free advice or help from some of my favorite friends and experts. So, you let us know your questions and we will do our best to answer!

How does it work?

Each day will be a different topic:

  • Monday – Courtney on writing/blogging/business
  • Tuesday – Ashley and Kylie on adoption
  • Wednesday – Lindsey aka Izzy on Super Nanny tips or home organization
  • Thursday – Tara C on discipline for our kids and behavior concerns
  • Friday – Heidi on working smarter from home

 

Each person will write a post on a few questions, then you get to add your questions. You can do that today if you know some. Or, ON THAT DAY – below the blog post, just put your question in the comment section and that writer will respond right there.

 

Courtney DeFeo Questions

What advice would you give someone that wants to start a small business like yours? What were your important first steps? 

First, start with these two blog posts that has a ton of information. Creating a Meaningful Product and Building Your Platform.

Next, you are getting me at a REALLY tired time in this business. So, I would beg anyone to pray, pray and pray some more – and be sure this is from the Lord. Especially if you have young kids at home. It is just plain hard. Definitely rewarding but 10x more work, expense than I ever imagined.

Clarity and research is key – knowing if you want to make money, or build a ministry – knowing “what” you want to do is key from the start. Some people LOVE making homemade things and then when it goes big – they don’t love that anymore.

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Etsy is a great first step – so many things in place to support small businesses. Custom websites and commerce can be costly. So, if you have a product to “test” – I would consider starting a blog that links to your etsy page. Blogs and social media help you connect with customers and get the word out there about your product. However, warning – it can consume you if not careful.

Outside of prayer and clear direction from God, my important first steps were 1) meeting with a mentor 2) designing a product and site that was truly unique and useful 3) determining a mission statement to keep me on track – empower moms and changing little lives through innovation in the home.

Good luck! I want to tell you – YOU CAN DO IT! GO FOR IT! At the same time, I want you to know it comes with a cost and you have to maybe wait on timing if kids are young and still needing you. A little “hobby” or “business” can take over – but it can also impact thousands of lives. So, pray that God gives you the word on what and when.

 

How do you balance everything?

I don’t. I am strong in a few areas and really weak in many. I am a lifelong over-achiever, multi-tasker and “yes” kind of girl that is paying the price. My heart is HUGE for others – but my biggest regret would be IF I put it all before my family. So, I am in a time of re-evaluating right now to see how I can tweak, change, stop so that my desire for my family to stay first meets up with the day to day reality. It’s a constant tension for me – never more aware of God’s presence in my life and how he can use me – but also aware of my weaknesses and the sacrifices that come with it.

I also ask for and use a lot of help. I stay focused with a mission statement that is my filter. I pray that God helps me discern what is the BEST for my business – not just a fun/good idea. The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst is an incredible tool for this process. Get it!

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If I want to write – where to get started?

Write. It sounds so simple – but you have to start writing. The only thing that will help you find your passion, voice and influence is to write. With NO expectations. You can write just for you – you can write for a blog but be clear your goal is to share what God placed on your heart and don’t watch those numbers. It can ruin the creative process to alter our message to fit what we “think” will soar fast or go viral. Know your customer – are you writing to the struggling wife? the tired mom? Think of her face and don’t be like me – I preach too much. Encourage and write from your struggles. He will use it. If you get really serious about writing a book, connect with Compel or She Speaks.

 

Did the rice trick work on your computer?

Oh yes it did!

 

Are you having fun?

I am so so honored to be traveling around and speaking directly into groups of moms. I love the group called moms. I love encouraging them and challenging them. My constant battle to say “no” and put first things first is truly wearing on me and I am trying to determine what that looks like for 2015. Stay tuned. I do not want to quit because it’s hard – but I want to honor God and my family above all else. And no one panic – we are truly all good. Marriage and kids – I just feel it (as you probably already noticed) that it was too much.

Two recent podcasts you can hear tips and more of my story:

Encouraging Words for Working Moms

God Centered Mom

What other questions do you have?

Category: A Better Me, Blogging, Mom Quick Tips, Uncategorized

About Courtney

Courtney DeFeo is most known for being a factory of ideas for families. It’s her desire to lead a life that radiates God’s love in action and His grace along the way. As a former marketing professional for corporations such as Chick-fil-A and Ketchum Public Relations, Courtney has a history of creating memorable programs and ideas that motivate others to action. She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle, creator of ABC Scripture Cards and Virtue Cards and the kindness movement Light ‘Em Up Acts. Her latest project is a community for tween girls and their moms - found at TreasuredGirlz.com. Her house is a wreck and she hates to cook. She adores her hot, patient husband. She posts entirely too many photos of her two girls on Instagram. Connect with Courtney anytime: Twitter • Website • Facebook • Instagram

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