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You Are Special Plate

April 17, 2014 //  by Kristen Franklin

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I love this thing. It was a wedding gift and when I first opened it, I didn’t think much of it and I certainly didn’t understand the magic it could hold. We were told that it could be used once a year for birthdays or big events in our lives as a part of the celebration. It stayed in our cabinet for a few years totally unused. After reading enough pinterest quotes, chain emails, and tweets…

I decided to start using it because every day was a gift and we shouldn’t wait to use this kind of thing.

I’m telling you, this red plate can literally be the highlight of our dinner time. If you are around me for longer than 5 minutes, you know I love questions, especially ones that are specific and thoughtful.

At least three meals a week, one of the Franklins get this plate.

The rule is that each person around the table has to say what they think is special about whoever has the plate that night. When we have guests, we have one of the guests get the special plate. Our boys love it so much that they don’t even argue about who gets the plate.  They actually enjoy getting to talk about whoever gets the plate and they don’t usually let you stop at just one thing.  It’s especially fun when we do have guests and we get to explain the plate because let’s be honest, who doesn’t love hearing good things about themselves??

 

Watching the joy and the pride come over whoever gets the special plate is AWESOME! I love it. You can just see the weight of the world’s constant negativity lift a little bit.  My love language is words of affirmation so this is TOTALLY my thing.  I could come up with three things that I love about most people in the blink of an eye. I know that I am awkward in my love and belief in people and I am totally comfortable telling people the things I love about them. I actually have to dial it back a bit because I’ve learned just because I am comfortable with it doesn’t mean everyone is. 🙂

 

That being said, I chose to use this plate weekly because I want my boys to learn to ask great questions, to be able to articulate what they love about people, I want them to learn to receive love and I think it can help them learn to risk. Risk loving well and  being awkward in order for the people around them to know how much they matter to this world. Granted, a red plate or a hand painted one from the pottery place isn’t going to change the world. However, I like the thought that the time people spend around a dinner table being filled with encouragement, love, and laughter and that maybe that could play a small part in them going out and changing their little corner of the world.

 

What is something fun your family does to cultivate conversation?

 

You can find my special plate here.

 

Category: Fun Ideas for the Home, Virtues/Values

About Kristen Franklin

Kristen is the co-founder of the Franklin Home, a place where she and her husband have the opportunity to raise & intensely love 2 VERY active boys. When Kristen is not cooking, working out, cleaning, paying bills, pinning, tweeting @khfranklin, facebooking, watching TV, reading, emailing, playing an iphone game or sleeping, she also works full time at Gwinnett Church, the newest church of North Point Ministries in Atlanta, GA. Connect with Kristen here: Twitter • Facebook

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